So, you've finished dragging your parents around shops, managed to pack all of your stuff into the car and finally said your goodbyes to everyone, and now you're bloody bricking it (to put it politely).
I may have slightly over estimated the amount of items I would need when I headed off to uni...
Don't panic! I know everyone always says you're all in the same boat, but you truly are. Everyone else is as excited, but nervous, as you are. It's a fresh start and new environment for everybody.
If you can, try and be one of the first people to arrive in your flat/block. Arriving early means that you can make a start on unpacking all of your stuff so you're not busy when others start arriving. That way you're not falling over one another when you first get there. It also means you can shotgun the best cupboards and fridge/freezer shelves, which is a great bonus!
Introductions are super awkward, but just go with it. You'll shortly realise that you will be asking everyone meet's name, course & where their hometown is, but you'll have asked so many people won't remember any of it if you do meet them again, because you will meet a lot of people. Your flatmates, and their relationship with you, are going to be pretty important for your first year, so try and make a good first impression, but don't worry as everyone's pretty welcoming in freshers. Try not to be too shy!
Once you've all arrived, and your parents have left, go on a venture with your flatmates. You'll probably all need some alcohol & mixers if you plan on going out, and if you don't it's still good to know how long the walk is to the local supermarket. This gives you some bonding time that isn't just awkwardly chatting to one another in the kitchen. Pop around to the other flats in your block and make sure everyone is introduced to one another, you'll be seeing them lots too this next year!
If you can, go on a night out. There's nothing quite like freshers to bond you all together. Look online or ask the RAs where to go and head out as a big group to the club. Have pres together and play some drinking games and get to know everyone better.
Make sure to unpack! Making your room your own will make it seem more like home. It'll keep you busy and means you have something to do before lectures start. When lectures do start you probably won't have time to unpack, so try and get it all done now!
I know I've said it about three times already, but everyone really is in the same boat. If you're feeling down or want someone to talk to, don't feel like you can't just knock on someone's door for a chat. They are probably just as lonely and homesick as you are. That goes for friends at other unis too, drop them a text or give them a ring to see how they're doing.
Another added bonus, which I shouldn't have to say but you'd be surprised! Try not to get romantically involved with your flatmates, it makes things pretty messy for everyone, think of them as family... That should put you off!
Good luck! xx
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